This unique seminar will explore how to navigate love and marriage as young Muslims living in the west.
This won’t be your usual talk on marriage. This will be a very practical and frank discussion on how to actually get married and stay married.
We currently live in a world of:
- Hollywood ‘happily ever after’ stories and social media couples – how do we really understand love and romance, and is it like we see in the movies?
- Rising divorce rates – what contributes to this and how can you best prepare yourself for marriage?
- Dating and hook-up culture – what’s the Islamic perspective on dating and getting to know someone for marriage?
Imam Shabbir will also share some interesting insights and stories from his experience of officiating more than 600 Nikah ceremonies in the UK and abroad. After working with hundreds of young couples and helping them to get married, he’s picked up on various trends, misconceptions and common questions which he’ll be going through.
Topics:
- The Islamic perspective on ‘love’ and the different stages of love in a marriage
- An understanding of gender interactions and gender differences in Islam
- What to consider before getting married
- How to best prepare yourself for marriage
- Western concept of dating vs Islamic concept of courting
- What questions to ask someone before you decide to marry them
- How to ensure your marriage gets off to the best possible start
Features an open and anonymous Q&A session tackling the issues we don’t tend to discuss.
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Guest
Ustaadh Shabbir Hassan
Shabbir Hassan is a speaker, Imam & teacher. He is a graduate Alim from Ebrahim College, London (Alimiyyah – Arabic Language, Islamic Sciences and Hadith studies) and also attained an MA in Islamic Education from the University of Warwick. Having completed his Hifdh (memorisation of the Qur’an) in Leicester by the age of 15, he pursued a path of knowledge and has spent over a decade in this field. Shabbir is the author of ‘A Beautiful Patience: 40 Life Lessons from Surah Yusuf’ which has already sold thousands of copies worldwide. He is also the founder of @TheNikahCo, the UK’s leading bespoke Nikah service provider, and has officiated more than 500 Nikah ceremonies in the UK and abroad. He currently hosts the popular IlmFeed Podcast, and is the co-founder of @FaithSpaceUK, where he serves as a spiritual facilitator.